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What are your most effective techniques that you use to get someone's attention and most important of all, love?
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A good question ! (almost sounds like a trick question too. . .:? )
Well, I'd just be myself, not put on any airs. . . and then a lady who is attracted by such a man comes along. . .walla !! she falls in love !! :D :p
Well, the first part I would suggest, yes. . .but love doesn't come in a minute, sometimes it doesn't come at all (to quote an old Wings song). Love is something that cannot be commanded (I order you to love me !!!) and eros (that cocktail that whips up that thing we most often think of when talking about love in poetry and music) doesn't last forever anyway. . .so. . .
When it happens it happens. I'd just be myself, be honest with the ladies I met, and let random occurance happen.:-)
Good answer Mars Man!
Yeah, to me, being yourself is the best way. Of course no games. Because that's just tiring. I hate it when I like a girl and I know she likes me (because of various reasons), but she plays some hard to get scheme, which turns me off. I just stop caring.
I'm one of those guys who never looks. You see all these people looking for someone online, or elsewhere, but I say if it happens it happens. Usually people find someone when they aren't looking. It's usually unexpected.
That's my observation anyway.
Haru-san`sTeiraa
31-05-06, 19:27
Mitsu doesn`t like the hard to get?good luck finding a woman who doesn`t play hard to get,lol
kirei_na_me
31-05-06, 23:24
I think the best way to find your mate is to be friends with them first. I think that's where the best relationships start. Someone you're not only attracted to, but someone who has the same interests, someone you can talk to about anything with, someone who supports you, someone you can be yourself around, etc.
All of this with no expectations of anything more...at first.
I think the best relationships are when you just happen upon someone, not when you seek it out. Just getting to know each other well and not putting any pressure on them to be anything more. If it starts going in that direction, though, you can jump on it.
I'm a strong believer in shared interests. I think all that "opposites attract" stuff is BS. Well, they might attract, but I don't think they usually stand the test of time. I think you need to find someone who has the same interests, values, and beliefs that you do, and if it feels right, go for it.
Well, I hope by me saying that I don't like girls that play hard to get, makes me look like I like girls that are "Easy". Because if a girl is "easy" then, soooo long.
It's sad how women are perceived, such as "slut" or "easy", when guys are perceived as a "ladies man" or "a pimp", by doing the exact same thing.
It's a two way street.
Although, it depends on how much (sex/other), and how often, with how many partners it's with. (Man or Woman)
I think the best way to find your mate is to be friends with them first. I think that's where the best relationships start....
I'm a strong believer in shared interests. I think all that "opposites attract" stuff is BS. Well, they might attract, but I don't think they usually stand the test of time. I think you need to find someone who has the same interests, values, and beliefs that you do, and if it feels right, go for it.
I totally agree with you, Kirei. :cool:
I am one of those people who doesn't look for someone, but I rather just be myself. :p
My husband and I were friends before we became lovers then husband and wife. However after he fell for me he was extremely keen though. He flew so many times from Strasbourg to Sydney to see me, buy me gifts and flowers and took me on vacations...and he still does...
I admit I am very touched by his sincerity.
After that, he has been working very hard to make our relationship work. I have returned his love by loving him back...and to be a gbonne femmeh to him. Our relationship has been through ups and downs it isn't easy but we have manage to make it work and we are doing well now...
:romance: :love: :rose:
Techniques for love? There're all out there, though mostly for short-lived relationships.
I guess 'techniques' for relationships which stand the test of time are compatibility, understanding and emotional satisfaction.
I'd say being yourself and remembering a thing called common sense when it comes to meeting new people. :blush:
As for finding love, it's a pure stroke of luck :p
I'd say being yourself and remembering a thing called common sense when it comes to meeting new people. :blush:
As for finding love, it's a pure stroke of luck :p
They had the results of more research which suggested that people who make eye contact and smile appear far more attractive to the opposite sex, just sounds like flirting to me.
And if being yourself doesn't work try being someone else.
They had the results of more research which suggested that people who make eye contact and smile appear far more attractive to the opposite sex, just sounds like flirting to me.
What ever happened too good old grumpyness and bitching? Oh right, that comes after you find someone :bluush:
What ever happened too good old grumpyness and bitching? Oh right, that comes after you find someone :bluush:
Are you sure your not Irish you sound like most women I've ever dated.
Get around the people. Better if you are student in university. Make friendships with many. If you are lucky, you will find one with whom there will be mutual feelings of attraction.
What are your most effective techniques that you use to get someone's attention and most important of all, love?
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glad to be here it's my first time :laughing::smile::smile:
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