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    Question Do you forgive people easily ?

    I voted "neither". It depends on the circumstances, whether it's a repeat offense, whether it was avoidable with some forethought or consideration, and what kind of person has committed the infraction. I see explanations (an analysis of what led to the wrongdoing/offense) and excuses ("it's just...
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    Language barrier and acceptance.

    I grew up bilingual (Japanese and English) with some French thrown in, and have lived in Canada, the Boston area of the US, and Dublin. I've also spent time (weeks, not just days) in major European capitals like Paris, Amsterdam, Rome, London, and some time in Tokyo and Taipei. In all of those...
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    Bilingual, Trilingual, Multilingual

    I seem to have compartmentalized Japanese and English (both acquired from birth to present) separately, and French (ages 1-17) /German (ages 14-16) is mixed together because I learned German at one point with the same teacher as for French, in back-to-back classes (middle/high school). However...
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    Question Are you influenced by ads and commercials ?

    No. I remain indifferent to products and services advertized, and rarely remember ads of any sort (occasionally to my husband's annoyance - I think he's envious of how I can be oblivious to many things, including pedestrians). I'm also aware of subliminal and overt marketing tactics, but am...
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    Question Is your offspring's future one of your life's purpose ?

    Personally I feel a calling to leave some work behind that will benefit lots of people somehow (if intangibly) even after I'm dead, but I've absolutely no incentive to personally pass my genes down to the next generation. Not to say I "hate" children, since I don't per se, but of numerous...
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    Do Looks Really Matter?

    To me, health matters - I'd be worried if someone I felt emotionally attracted to was morbidly obese or extremely underweight, for instance. And emotional/intellectual/physical attraction is not an all-or-nothing deal. I have several platonic male friends, with whom physical attraction was not a...
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    Question What do you want to do with your body after you die ?

    I don't want to be buried or cremated; I think I'll be choosing the option described here: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2004/04/11/nbury11.xml
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    Things that make the US different from other developed countries

    I don't think this question was addressed yet, so from what I have seen, 1) While this mainly seems to happen in the US, even that seems pretty rare (I only personally know of one XXX YYY the Third; no Jr/Srs) and 2) if it happens in Canada, I've not had any personal experience with anyone...
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    Question Would you chop your hand off if...

    I would be sucking out the venom after filling my mouth with saliva (to minimize absorption) and THEN putting on a tourniquet. I'd have asked my friend to call for/go for help and I'd only chop off my hand as a last resort (e.g. if I know how long the helicopter/ambulance with antivenom would...
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    The Gay Marriage Controversy

    I'll be even briefer then :-) First, I agree with licensing - I've been saying that myself, for years also. Second, since a certain percentage of homosexuals has always been found in all human societies, I think it's a stable part of the gene pool, for whatever reason. I would not call...
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    The Gay Marriage Controversy

    Taking a different approach now... @Areku - I'm against the concept of organized religion myself, so there's no debate there... I'm giving up on quotes, but a few responses now to your latest post: A will does not cover emergency contacts even if it deals with inheritance, and even the...
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    The Gay Marriage Controversy

    My point is that the urge to reproduce does not necessarily disappear in homosexuals, and that it is more common than not that the child has genetic ties to at least one parent. And yes, a female-female DNA merging can only produce female children. So far, all humans must have at least one X...
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    The Gay Marriage Controversy

    What about all the other marriages that are approved by other religions? Buddhist, Shinto, Muslim and of course Jewish... even within Christianity, Orthodox vs. Catholic vs. Mormon etc. - they're all just religious ceremonies that are, reasonably enough, optional for the couple to choose or not...
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    why did my accent change?

    @Brooker - actually it's "queue"... Anyway, I've had an American accent ever since I can remember (standard, not Southern or Bostonian or anything specific) although I'm Canadian. Since I came here, like Brooker I've just adopted some phrases (mobile instead of cell phone, footpath instead of...
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    Do men speak more about themselves than women ?

    @BuSmo, it's "unconsciously". @Maciamo, I personally think it's too much of an (invalid) generalization to state: I think all people need to be understood and that it's unfair, unreasonable, and plain wrong to generalize about half the world population not wanting to be "reasoned with" as much...
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