Haplogroups I and J descend from IJ, but the split happened almost 40,000 years ago in the Middle East. Haplogroup I moved to Europe (with a few possible leftovers in the Middle East) while J remained there.
If you consider that modern humans didn't
start painting caves until 32,000 years ago, that the first pottery appeared 27,000 years ago (but wasn't commonly used in Europe until about 7,000 years ago) and that modern Europeans probably didn't have white skin and fair eyes until 15,000 to 10,000 years ago, you will realise that 40,000 years is a very long time.
The split between I and J happened around the same time as the split between R and NO. So I and J are not more closely related than Europeans (mostly R) are from East Asians (mostly O).
You can see a timeline with all this
here