I found a cool site called GEDmatch, where you can run the raw genetic data through a bunch of computers.
they said, as I expected originally, that my combined DNA is closest to Greeks, Italians, Sicilians, Bulgarians, Romanians, and other folks in the north Mediteranean.
this makes the most sense, and its too bad 23andMe didn't get this specific.
simply identifying my Y DNA as R1a1a is waaaay too vague and general.