That's a completely different topic, but what's for you "anti-gay"? For me truly anti-gay people are those which would bully and beat homosexuals or would want them to get imprisoned or executed. Take for example the Islamic State in Syria-Iraq, that was truly "anti-gay". If someone opposes demands made by the LGBT representatives and political parties using these communities and their most radical minority views to undermine other spheres of society, is this really "anti-gay"? Like I said, I have no issue with what people do in private, as long as they don't harm other people or the community with what they do. Offensive "pro-gay" and "anti-heteronormative" or anti-male politics, is different, its way more than just being tolerant towards what people do in private.
Nowadays, people being called "homophob" and "transphob" or anti-gay etc. not for being like the Islamic State, but for being just against social engineering and re-education of their children in the sense of identity politics is being considered "anti" already.
If you are against kids in school getting a specific "woke" indoctrination, and you speak out about this - there are actually quite a few homosexuals which are not that fond of such policies and propagand themselves - does that make someone "anti-gay" and does he needs to "get exposed" for his "double standards"? But that's the tactics and propaganda they are using. There are radical homosexual feminists out there which publicly said they have a distaste for heterosexual couples with children, a distaste for the classical family. What are they? They are more anti-heterosexual and anti-family than most conservative people are "anti-gay" these days.
Just because a homosexual is still a reasonable person which thinks about the interests and future of other people, with a different orientation, and the development of his community as a whole, doesn't make him a "hypocritical" or dishonest person. He might just differentiate between what's good for the state and people and his sex drive and preferences in private, something all politicians should be able to do.