And you have to remember two men both armed, fighting a war, is a little different from blowing little yoshio's brains over a near wall from a bomb blast shockwave is a little different from two men on opposing armeis shooting at each other.
When a soldier dies for his country is a tragic event, when civillians are killed its downright heart-breaking.
War has come a long way, but were still short of humanity in general racognising civillians as just off-limits. Period.
Winner or not i think the status of war-criminal is above the small concept of whoever got a victory parade.