In reality, the difference is, that the savage lives within himself while social man lives outside himself and can only live in the opinion of others, so that he seems to receive the feeling of his own existence only from the judgement of others concerning him ... in spite of our many fine works on morality, or to show how, everything being reduced to appearances,
there is but art and mummery
in even honour,
friendship,
virtue,
and often vice itself,
of which we at length learn the secret of boasting; to show, in short, how abject we are, and never daring to ask ourselves in the midst of so much philosophy, benevolence, politeness, and of such sublime codes of morality,
we have nothing to show for ourselves but
a frivolous and deceitful appearance,
honour without virtue,
reason without wisdom,
and pleasure without happiness. - Rousseau
Always laugh when you can, it's a cheap medicine. -Byron
by indignities men come to dignities. -Bacon