Angela
Veteran member
- Messages
- 21,793
- Reaction score
- 12,345
- Points
- 113
- Ethnic group
- Italian
The Harvey Weinstein scandal just keeps going...
See:
http://www.businessinsider.com/holl...nstein-in-the-past-2017-10/#gwyneth-paltrow-1
On one level this shouldn't be a surprise, as there is some sexual harassment in all industries, although I have to say the scale of this is extraordinary. I've worked in male dominated work places all my life, and I never heard of or experienced anything this bad.
What is particularly infuriating, however, is the mass hypocrisy involved. This man and men like him talk female empowerment, even give money to foundations working to decrease harassment in Weinstein's case, and meanwhile this is how they behave. The Board of his company basically indemnified him for his behavior, not firing him, and even going so far as to help him pay many of these women off. The female actresses who worked for him are even more culpable. They foam at the mouth when a Republican politician or pundit is caught in an affair or making inappropriate remarks, but they either go accept this intimacy, or keep quiet about it. As for myself, there isn't a job in the world or enough money in the world to make me accept or be complicit in something like this.
I now have absolutely no respect for Gwenyth Paltrow, for example. When he tried it with her, instead of handling it herself she went running for her then boyfriend, Brad Pitt, to get him to talk to Weinstein. She then went on to make pictures with Weinstein knowing full well he was doing this to every other young actress who worked with him. Meryl Streep, whom I love as an actress, and presents herself as the left wing conscience of America, has heaped praise on Weinstein when she had to know what was going on.
What is satisfying is that now that the numbers are growing, the men who tried to defend him or who are mouthing platitudes are getting their comeuppance too. Oliver Stone defended him and so women went public with allegations against him. Ben Affleck, that drunk, tried to come across as holier than thou, so he was called out by an actress who says she told him about being raped by Weinstein, and he said he'd told Weinstein over and over again to cut it out. So, he knew all along and still befriended him.
I hope they all go down.
So far only one man has come forward about being abused, but I guarantee you there are more, harassed and abused not just by males but females.
As for Weinstein's whining that he has a sex addiction, it makes me so mad I could spit. It's about power. Obviously, no one would have sex with him if they weren't coerced. He's disgusting. The descriptions of him and what he did are so unsavory that if you had to see it in the "flesh" it could put you off sex forever.
This is why if you're the parent of daughters you should make sure they get some sort of self-defense and martial arts training.
There are parts of this that I emotionally just don't get, however. Don't these women have cell phones? Tape the ******* making his threats, then knee him or use your spiked heel on his groin and take a picture of him while he's down. Send it all to his wife, the company website, blogs, anywhere you can think of. Or, if you really want to stay in the industry, leave and threaten him with it all later. Where is the street smarts in some of these women?
See:
http://www.businessinsider.com/holl...nstein-in-the-past-2017-10/#gwyneth-paltrow-1
On one level this shouldn't be a surprise, as there is some sexual harassment in all industries, although I have to say the scale of this is extraordinary. I've worked in male dominated work places all my life, and I never heard of or experienced anything this bad.
What is particularly infuriating, however, is the mass hypocrisy involved. This man and men like him talk female empowerment, even give money to foundations working to decrease harassment in Weinstein's case, and meanwhile this is how they behave. The Board of his company basically indemnified him for his behavior, not firing him, and even going so far as to help him pay many of these women off. The female actresses who worked for him are even more culpable. They foam at the mouth when a Republican politician or pundit is caught in an affair or making inappropriate remarks, but they either go accept this intimacy, or keep quiet about it. As for myself, there isn't a job in the world or enough money in the world to make me accept or be complicit in something like this.
I now have absolutely no respect for Gwenyth Paltrow, for example. When he tried it with her, instead of handling it herself she went running for her then boyfriend, Brad Pitt, to get him to talk to Weinstein. She then went on to make pictures with Weinstein knowing full well he was doing this to every other young actress who worked with him. Meryl Streep, whom I love as an actress, and presents herself as the left wing conscience of America, has heaped praise on Weinstein when she had to know what was going on.
What is satisfying is that now that the numbers are growing, the men who tried to defend him or who are mouthing platitudes are getting their comeuppance too. Oliver Stone defended him and so women went public with allegations against him. Ben Affleck, that drunk, tried to come across as holier than thou, so he was called out by an actress who says she told him about being raped by Weinstein, and he said he'd told Weinstein over and over again to cut it out. So, he knew all along and still befriended him.
I hope they all go down.
So far only one man has come forward about being abused, but I guarantee you there are more, harassed and abused not just by males but females.
As for Weinstein's whining that he has a sex addiction, it makes me so mad I could spit. It's about power. Obviously, no one would have sex with him if they weren't coerced. He's disgusting. The descriptions of him and what he did are so unsavory that if you had to see it in the "flesh" it could put you off sex forever.
This is why if you're the parent of daughters you should make sure they get some sort of self-defense and martial arts training.
There are parts of this that I emotionally just don't get, however. Don't these women have cell phones? Tape the ******* making his threats, then knee him or use your spiked heel on his groin and take a picture of him while he's down. Send it all to his wife, the company website, blogs, anywhere you can think of. Or, if you really want to stay in the industry, leave and threaten him with it all later. Where is the street smarts in some of these women?