You can see in article which I gave, for example (Italy):
"Discrimination against women comes in many shapes and forms under sharia law. Muslim women are not allowed to marry a non ‐ Muslim man while Muslim men are free to marry a non ‐ Muslim woman. This Islamic rule violates the Convention. Art 14 states that “the enjoyment of the rights and freedoms set forth in this Convention shall be secured without discrimination on any ground such as sex ...” Nevertheless, it has become part of the Italian jurisprudence. Under Italian marriage rules, a woman from Algeria or Egypt, for example, must obtain her embassy’s consent in order to be able to marry a non ‐ Muslim in Italy. Consent is unlikely unless the would ‐ be husband converts to Islam. This rule in turn comes into question under Art 12, the right to marry and found a family. What is the difference then between applying this rule and legalising forced marriage? Forced marriage is about losing the freedom to choose the person you want to marry. Women are obliged to marry a man that has been chosen usually by her parents or relatives. This is a practice that is legally forbidden in countries like the United Kingdom, Norway, Denmark, Germany, Austria, Malta, Belgium and Cyprus. Italy has not taken measures to tackle this issue and, therefore, the current state of affairs is not surprising. Requiring women from Muslim countries to get the embassy’s permission is not equivalent by any means to forcing them into an undesired marriage but it is a likely by ‐ product if the woman does not get the embassy’s permission she desires. She may find herself having to choose between being alone or marrying a Muslim man, in order to comply with State’s requirement. Similar to forced marriage, where parents decide their daughter’s marital fate, the Italian state’s obstruction of the freedom of women from Muslim countries to marry is also deciding women’s marital fates. The encroachment of this marital rule is a clear example of how a multicultural accommodation policy can violate rights of individuals, namely women."
What is more important, Sharia law or rights of women in democratic country (such as Italy)?
It is very seriously question.
This is only small example.
Sharia law is more and more in legal system of European countries (about which is the above article).
Constitutional pronouncements are only as good as the statutes enacted to enforce them. Those are pretty words, but how would it work in terms of real life, with real police officers and real prosecutors?
In the real world, it can be impossible to enforce such rules. Let's assume for the moment that we are talking about a Muslim woman who is an Italian citizen. Let's further assume that the coercion takes the form of haranguing her, or 'guilting' her, or ostracizing her. What can the law do? The answer is... nothing. Likewise, if the girl is brainwashed into agreeing? That, in my opinion, is what is going on in these break away Mormon sects. The answer again is...nothing. Should they confine her, or starve her, or beat her, then we are talking about crimes which can be prosecuted.
The situation which you bring up involving foreign nationals is a different matter. These are citizens of another country, with an ambiguous status in their host countries. The rules governing their marriages are obviously the result of a diplomatic agreement between Italy and these countries, an agreement based, I have no doubt, largely on the fact that Italy gets a lot of its oil from Muslim countries, and North Africa and the Near East are good markets for its goods. Do I agree with the decision? No, but to make a real difference, all the European countries would have to agree to present a united front. Do you see that happening? I don't. Each one will scramble for its own economic interest, or to keep their underclass Muslim populations quiet. Has anyone forgotten the French riots? Look at European cowardice, from my perspective, where Russia is concerned. Forgive me, but it seems to me that a lot of European countries would rather waste their time arguing about meaningless details of history or exaggerating meaningless, minute differences in genetic ancestry rather than figuring out how to heal their economies or how to confront the real existential threat which confronts them. And I do not, by any means, exclude Italy from this judgment.
None of this Islamist propaganda, or even parental teachings, would carry so much weight among these young people, even in the presence of the corroding effect of the internet, if these young people were integrating into the societies of their host countries. There are many reasons, in my opinion, why this isn't happening. Part of it is that these are people from the lowest rung of society in their own countries in many cases, desperately poor, uneducated, and untrained for roles in post industrial societies. Part of it is that the cultures are, indeed, vastly different. The psychological world which the older generations, at least, inhabit, has more in common with 1200 AD, or even earlier, than with 2014 AD. Some of it is because, imo, they have been met with racism and ostracism.
This is what happens when you accept people within your borders for cheap labor when times are good and then the good times abruptly end. Perhaps it's also the consequence of refusing to recognize that you can't admit and absorb everyone from the third world who seeks that admittance, and illegal immigrants have to be turned away, as hard hearted as that may seem.