There's no point in starting a thread for three women members, so I'll hijack this thread.
Ideally: dark, thick hair, nice expression in the eyes, strong nose, nice teeth and hands, a muscular body, preferably my height or a bit taller.
Most important: integrity, kindness, intellect, humor.
I have to admit I like strong men with a bit of a domineering streak. Maybe I like the challenge.
For years, my celebrity "crush" was Raoul Bova, as much for what I thought he was like as for his looks. Even in middle age he's still gorgeous, imo. Then he had a mid-life crisis and disappointed me. He has feet of clay.
Now, probably Carmine Signorelli:
I don't think you can get much more handsome for my tastes.
I used to think Tom Selleck was very handsome too:
From yesteryear, there are many: Cary Grant, Gregory Peck,